2021.12.07 09:56 AleixASV First map of Catalonia with its modern county system. 1906, 118x124cm, made by Francesc Flors. Spain.
2021.12.07 09:56 Emjay5784 Do ROCD sufferers question their decision after breaking up?
Hi All. I hope it's okay I post in here as the ex of someone I am 99% confident was suffering from ROCD. Our relationship was great and he (43m) acknowledged it was the deepest relationship he'd ever had. But after 3 years he still couldn't tell me he loved me (he's never told anyone that), and CONSTANTLY told me about the unbearable "doubt" he lived with and how he wasn't certain I was "The One." Once, he told me he loved me, then a week or so later told me he'd thought about it more and he didn't in fact believe he loved me. He broke up with me 3x over the course of our relationship (one time coming back after 5 months), always when there was some sort of request for a greater commitment (moving in together, him coming back to my country to meet my family, a discussion about getting engaged).
Three weeks ago, he broke up with me over the course of a few days, crying in every conversation (before that he'd said he hadn't cried since he was 14) and clearly tortured over the decision. However, I imagine it relieved the obsessions I know he was dealing with *in* the relationship. I'm not angry at all. I'm super sad because I love and miss him, but toward the end of our relationship he withheld all compliments and praise, was distant and so vocal about his "doubt" and me not being "the one" (despite being able to name a single incompatibility) that it really started to wear me down. I realize that being in a relationship with someone suffering from ROCD unmanaged would be corrosive to my self-worth, which is helping me through my heartbreak.
I've thought about sharing information on ROCD with him. However, I'm actually a therapist and I worry it will come off as patronizing or pathologizing. I want him to get there on his own, but given his well-meaning friends and family now support his argument that I'm "just not the one," I imagine he'll go out there and keep searching. He's attractive and successful and has no shortage of options, so he can keep the fantasy alive for a long time.
My main question is this: for any of you with ROCD who've broken up with a partner, especially multiple times, do you question your decision afterward? Or are you simply so overwhelmed with the relief of no longer dealing with the symptoms of the ROCD and rationalize your decision as the right one? And any other thoughts or observations would be so appreciated as experts with the lived experience of ROCD. Thank you so much in advance and it's so inspiring and beautiful to see everyone's self-awareness and support <3.
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2021.12.07 09:56 WealthyJoker75 Did anyone else actually like the VIPs?
2021.12.07 09:56 Master-Quarter4762 Gamers, where the hell do you get your GPUs from
2021.12.07 09:56 SethMooner VTHO Insufficient Balance to transfer on VeChainThor Wallet
Hello. What is the minimum amount to withdraw VTHO from the VeChainThor Wallet? I just moved all my VET to stake it and I wanted to move out the VTHO but I can't. I only have 4,315 units. Thank you.
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2021.12.07 09:56 QuietBusiness5435 401k VESTED QUESTION
I’ve been working under 3 years and I am QUITTING. I cannot ask HR for obvious reasons.
I know I am not fully vested (only 10%), but I always opted to put 100% of my profit sharing into my 401k instead of the 10% GEICO requires. Will GEICO take back 80% the full PS amount or only 80% of the 10%?
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2021.12.07 09:56 GGodos He is dead after this
2021.12.07 09:56 whichfahim HM Items in v19.1
2021.12.07 09:56 jalapingooo Money Mella
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2021.12.07 09:56 usonamdnvidia Rumored AMD Ryzen 7 6700G “Rembrandt” APU Dominates Nvidia’s GTX 1050 Ti In Time Spy Benchmarks, Sports With RDNA2 12 CU iGPU
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2021.12.07 09:56 mmmwhatyasay321 My mental illness makes me immediately overbearing because I get too excited to talk to new people
ESP because most of the time those people are just guys that want to see my tits but not actually be my friend. As a bisexual person it’s easy for me to put friendship first, as ive had 28 years to practice separating sex and friendship since I’m attracted to both males and females. But other people don’t do that, especially guys. This makes me sad because a lot of relationships I felt were genuine turned out to not be genuine at all.
So when I start asking questions about who they are they lose interest. And now I’m sad. And I feel lonely. And the internet doesn’t help. And I can’t talk to people in real life except for my two girl friends because my husband will get jealous (even though he is constantly looking at other girls).
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2021.12.07 09:56 Legal_Interaction_59 How to build a mine in no man's sky
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2021.12.07 09:56 FaithlessnessKey5084 I need some starter tips
2021.12.07 09:56 r4sun Surface Laptop Studio i5 vs i7?
I currently have the i7, 32GB, 3050TI version of the Surface Laptop Studio and was thinking of downgrading to the i5 16GB version. My primary tasks are work related (mostly MS office suite/remote desktop into the work PC), browsing and media consumption, and some light gaming (indies ie. Rimworld, Slay the Spire, etc).
Would the i5 version be plenty for my tasks? Or should I stick with the i7 version? The savings would ~$1200 CAD. Also, is there a noticeable difference in battery life between the i5 and i7 versions?
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2021.12.07 09:56 swagNextTuber Elizabeth Warren blasts Hertz for $2 billion stock buyback while jacking up rental car prices
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2021.12.07 09:56 Dha_sheep Just I drew Kozue in a thicc way.
2021.12.07 09:56 Witchywifey Have a slice of this fresh baked Salem loaf
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2021.12.07 09:56 R3fuseToDie AI Art on Items, some are so apt others required extra prompts in their name
2021.12.07 09:56 Rickythrow Jebel Hafeet Desert Park guided hikes?
2021.12.07 09:56 ukheeducator School lockdowns risk more cases like Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, says Ofsted head
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2021.12.07 09:56 Ok-Towel-8431 How to import client profiles to my Mac and pc?
2021.12.07 09:56 AndrewH96 Posts in the main Halo sub providing evidence of stripped out content are being removed / hidden - Links to posts.
Sorry if this isn't the right place for this sort of thing, but this genuinely has me just a little teeny bit peed off and it seems like it's being covered up very hard.
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2021.12.07 09:56 tanakorb ⚔️ Enter the Dragon Land Fantasy Metaverse ⚔️ Launching Now on BSC ⚓ Liquidity Lock ⏳ Low Marketcap!!
Dragon Land Metaverse (BSC)
⚔️Dragon Land is the first Fantasy Metaverse coming to BSC. Join us in building a fantasy world where people can buy land, characters, armor and other treasures and fight other players and NPCs in a P2E game. Building out a complete ecosystem, the DRAGONLAND token, launching on Pancakeswap, will be the governance token to pay for treasures and other goods in the Land of the Dragons.
⛓️Contract Address: 0x7FbBf28Af810d995319ee4B5eFF547857057A8a3
⚔️Create your character, build your kingdom and interact and team up with other players in the metaverse. Fight dragons, other creatures and other kingdoms to collect valuable armor and other treasures and expand your empire!
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⚔️Professional audit paid for and will be available a couple days.
⚔️Marketing budget of 50k USD.
⚔️Trusted devs with experience in other BSC projects and a lot of connections.
⚔️Liquidity will be locked.
⚔️External AMA + Private Doxxing.
Don’t miss out on this one, it might be the next NetVRk.
⛓️Contract Address: 0x7FbBf28Af810d995319ee4B5eFF547857057A8a3
⚡ SOCIALS ⚡
✨ Website: https://dragonlanderc.net/
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2021.12.07 09:56 Jb985985 Does anybody know why my helium miner isn’t syncing to the blockchain with wired and wireless internet connections ? Please HELP!
2021.12.07 09:56 Comfortchomper Review of a Popular Coffee Chain - Flash Coffee
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